Does it give you great satisfaction to please people you care about? When around people that you love do you bite your tongue in fear of saying something inside you that might hurt or disappoint them? Do you realize the brutality this causes? Nope. Usually not. Biting your tongue and keeping the truth inside rather than spilling the beans on how you really feel usually hurts way more. Does your personality fall under the "people pleaser" category? If so then perhaps the Fruit Bats wrote these words for you....

"When you love somebody but bite your tongue all you get is a mouthful of blood."

love,
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